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What People Got Incredibly Wrong About Eating Disorders

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In this episode, I’m talking about how the media’s (and beyond) portrayal is not only wildly inaccurate but also dangerously misleading. That “sick enough” myth? It’s real. And let’s be honest, it’s all kinds of messed up. I’m unraveling the reason why those 19-year-old, emaciated models aren’t the majority, and how most people don’t fit neatly into a category. 

This episode isn’t just for those who are directly impacted by eating disorders. It's for everyone—clinicians, parents, educators, or anyone who’s ever wondered why this issue is so misunderstood. Let’s face it: people don't get it. So, we’re here to fix that, one eye-opening truth at a time.

In this episode, I’m talking about:

  • Eating disorders as a complex relationship between food and emotions, not just about weight or severity.

  • The need to address emotions in recovery, not just food and physical health.

  • Harmful media misconceptions about eating disorders, particularly the stereotype of emaciated, young, white girls.

  • Why most people with eating disorders don’t fit into typical diagnostic categories.

  • The reality that many don’t experience severe medical complications, yet still need help.

  • The importance of early detection for more effective treatment.

  • How misconceptions lead to missed opportunities for intervention, especially among non-specialist clinicians.

  • The often-overlooked emotional and mental health struggles behind eating disorders.

  • The widespread feeling of not being “sick enough” to seek help.

  • Why eating disorders should be taken seriously at all stages, regardless of physical symptoms.

  • The role of emotions, relationships, and past experiences in both eating disorders and recovery.

Tweetable Quotes

"Eating disorders are when food and emotions are kind of messed up."- Rachelle Heinemann

"The emotions are the crux of it. They're the absolute foundation of it. And if we neglect to look at the emotions part of it, then we are neglecting basically the entirety of the eating disorder." - Rachelle Heinemann

"Just because somebody doesn't have any medical complications at all doesn't mean they don't have an eating disorder." - Rachelle Heinemann

"The largest percentage of people that we see with eating disorders... is the category for the people who don't fit in the categories." - Rachelle Heinemann

"It's important to talk about what eating disorders actually are: a complicated relationship with food, and we have this continuum of where the symptoms lie." - Rachelle Heinemann

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Episode 69. High Functioning Eating Disorders


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