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Unsolicited Advice

One area where this struggle for nuance is particularly apparent is in the realm of health and wellness. Many people are quick to share their success stories or personal experiences as the standard. Whether it's weight loss, dietary choices, or exercise routines, this well-intentioned but unsolicited advice can sometimes do more harm than good. 

For example, someone who believes they have “successfully” adopted a low-carb diet may passionately endorse it without considering that individual nutritional needs vary significantly (besides for that it’s just probably a bad idea because bodies need carbs.) This advice also doesn’t account for personal circumstances, such as financial constraints or access to specific foods. So while they’re intentions may be good, this advice isn’t ideal. 

Universal Recommendations

I’m sure you can think of a few common recommendations for “healthier living”. Such as, increasing fruit and vegetable intake, drinking more water, etc. These require a nuanced approach. What works wonders for one person may lead to discomfort or adverse effects for another. We have to stop blindly accepting advice, even if it comes from reputable sources and would technically be good advice, just not for you. Personalization is key when determining what suits your unique circumstances.

The Role of Critical Thinking

Despite living in a world of conflicting information and well-intentioned but potentially misguided advice, we should lean into critical thinking. Take time to evaluate information, and consider its source and relevance to your life. Does it align with your personal experiences, beliefs, and needs? Critical thinking empowers individuals to make informed decisions rather than relying solely on external guidance. 

The Power of Self-Trust

It’s time to trust our own intuition and judgment. While outside guidance can be helpful, it should complement rather than dictate our choices. We have to recognize that we are all living unique lives. Some advice will resonate with us, while others can negatively impact us. We live in a world of information overload. So take a moment to filter out the information that isn’t helpful. 

Being able to make informed decisions is empowering. 

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Tweetable Quotes

"It is very hard to come to a consensus or a compromise or even an understanding of each other or of ourselves if we have differing opinions internally or ambivalence." - Rachelle Heinemann 

"Please take everything with a grain of salt. Take everything on social media with a grain of salt." - Rachelle Heinemann 

"What do I deep down know to be true and healthy for me in particular?" - Rachelle Heinemann 

"It's kind of ridiculous for somebody to say, ‘This works for me and therefore it'll work for you.’ They don't know what your life story is. They don't know what your home situation is.” - Rachelle Heinemann 

“A lot of people say, ‘Sleep is really important. You should get at least seven to eight hours of sleep.’ Well, if you're talking to any new mom or dad, that is completely impossible.” - Rachelle Heinemann

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